I joined an adult dating site last year. I had several contacts with some very interesting men who were interested in the same things as me. We exchanged phone numbers since that was allowed on the dating site. I began to get calls from a very delightful man who was absolutely charming. He invited me to visit him in his town. His town was in Frankfurt, Germany. I had neglected to let him know that I lived in the States. When I told him, he was not put off. Actually, he suggested that either he or I could fly to the nearest airport and meet. That would have been fun but I tactfully declined. He stopped calling. The fact that he lived in another country really made the attraction more exciting. I know all about being careful of giving information of a very personal nature online. However, I had a very interesting time dating a perfect stranger who just happened to live in Frankfurt, Germany.